Lesson 1.6: Holding Your Yarn & Crochet Hook
Learning how to comfortably hold your yarn and hook is one of the first skills every crocheter needs. There isn't just one correct way to hold them the goal is to find a position that feels comfortable and gives you good control over your stitches.
What You'll Learn
By the end of this lesson, you'll know:
- The two common ways to hold a crochet hook.
- How to hold your yarn.
- How to control yarn tension.
- How to position your hands comfortably.
- How to avoid gripping your hook too tightly.
Part 1: Holding Your Crochet Hook
There are two common ways to hold a crochet hook.
The Pencil Grip ✏️
Hold the hook similarly to the way you would hold a pencil.
Your thumb and index finger control the hook while your remaining fingers provide support.
This grip can feel natural if you're already comfortable holding a pencil.
The Knife Grip 🔪
Hold the hook as though you're holding a knife.
Your hand wraps around the handle, with your thumb and index finger helping control the hook.
This grip can give some crocheters more stability and control.
Which Grip Is Correct?
Both!
There is no single "correct" grip. Try both and see which feels more comfortable.
Part 2: Holding Your Yarn
Your yarn hand controls the tension of your yarn.
If the yarn is too tight, your stitches can become difficult to work.
If it's too loose, your stitches may become very large and uneven.
A simple starting position is:
- Hold your crochet hook in your dominant hand.
- Hold the working yarn in your other hand.
- Wrap the yarn loosely around a finger or guide it between your fingers.
- Let the yarn slide smoothly as you crochet.
- Keep your hand relaxed.
Don't worry about getting your tension perfect immediately. Tension improves with practice.
Part 3: What Is Yarn Tension?
Tension is how tightly or loosely you hold and work your yarn.
Think of your yarn like a garden hose. You want enough control to guide it, but you don't want to squeeze it so tightly that nothing can move.
Too Tight
Your stitches may:
- Be difficult to insert your hook into
- Look very small
- Create stiff fabric
- Make your hands tired
Too Loose
Your stitches may:
- Become oversized
- Have large gaps
- Look uneven
- Make it difficult to maintain consistent stitch size
Just Right
Your yarn should:
- Move smoothly
- Have some resistance
- Allow your hook to move easily
- Create consistent stitches
Part 4: Relax Your Hands
One of the biggest beginner mistakes is holding everything too tightly.
Your hook doesn't need to be squeezed.
Your yarn doesn't need to be pulled tight.
Try keeping your:
- Shoulders relaxed
- Wrists comfortable
- Fingers relaxed
- Hook grip gentle
If your hand starts feeling tired, stop for a moment and shake your hands out before continuing.
Part 5: Practice Exercise
Grab your 5.0 mm or 5.5 mm hook and some #4 Medium yarn from the earlier lessons.
Practice 1: Hook Grip
Hold your hook using the pencil grip for a few minutes.
Then switch to the knife grip.
Notice which feels more natural.
Practice 2: Yarn Tension
Make a few chains while holding the yarn loosely.
Then make a few more chains while holding it more tightly.
Notice how different the chains feel.
Practice 3: Find Your Comfortable Position
Try adjusting:
- Where the yarn sits on your fingers
- How tightly you hold your hook
- How far your hands are from each other
Your goal isn't perfection. You're looking for a comfortable, repeatable position.
Beginner Tip ⭐
Don't worry if your first stitches look uneven.
That's completely normal!
As you practice, your hands will begin to develop muscle memory, and maintaining consistent tension will become much easier.
Lesson Summary
Today you learned:
- The pencil grip and knife grip.
- How your yarn hand controls tension.
- The difference between tight and loose tension.
- Why relaxing your hands is important.
- How to practice finding your own comfortable grip.













